This once taboo of a black man seeking and being seen with a white woman is no more.  Not too long ago black men were beaten to death or lynched for this very act. 

I don't know if it's due to the election of Barak Obama to the presidency, or everyone now sees racism in this country as dead and buried; but it seems to be a growing trend to see a "brotha" on the arms of a Caucasian woman these days.

Are they trying to say that a black man being seen with a white woman is an honor of some sort?  They walk with their chests sticking out and with a proud stride; as if they're saying "look at me now, I have arrived!"  "I have obtained what used to be forbidden and out of my reach, I am now complete!"

Advice:  Watch your money and your back.

It's one thing to be with someone of another race because you love them.  It's another to be with someone of a certain race because you think they're better, and you despise your own.

Black men need to remain cognizant that because of a black woman they have life.

If we don't make them there'll be none available for the white women to have!

And, those black men who dislike black women, I have a question for you, is your mother black?

You must hate yourselves!

Brenda Farrar-Ejemai
CEO, Favor Blooms, LLC
author of:  The Family In The Car,
                      a Revelation
http://www.thefamilyinthecar.com/